I have been in a serious relationship with B for over a year. Punctuality was among the major issues in our relationship woes. While punctuality was one of my weaknesses (I was seldom punctual for most of my appointments or dates!), B values punctuality very much.
The incident I will be describing took place four months ago. It was Friday afternoon when B asked me out to catch a movie with him. As I did not have any plans that evening, I agreed to meet him at 7pm at Dhoby Ghaut MRT Station.
However, I had an urgent assignment to attend to an hour after I hung up the call from B. Figuring that I would be able to complete the task and manage to meet him on time, I did not find the need to inform B about the situation.
Alas, it was already 6:20pm after I completed the assignment. As I rushed off to the bus stop, I sent a short message to B, letting him know the possibility of me being late, while assuring him that I was making my way there, hoping that he would understand. I felt rather uneasy as there were past incidences when I was late for our dates - he often showed visible signs of annoyance.
I was aghast when I discovered the long lines of vehicles caught in the heavy traffic jam as I reached the bus stop. Needless to say, I was late for the date again!
I arrived at the MRT station at 7:20pm. B was waiting for me impatiently at the main entrance. Suddenly - as I approached him - B took long quick strides away from me. I stood rooted at my position, utterly stunned by his behaviour. Several moments passed before anger surged through me. I was furious at B for being unreasonable and for not giving me the opportunity to explain myself before jumping to conclusions. At that instant, I stormed back to the MRT platform and took the next train home.
A couple of days passed and there was still no news from B. If you were in my shoes, what would you do to tackle this situation? Or even better, what could be done to prevent this episode from happening?
We have resolved this issue sometime back but I would like to listen to your opinion. Some parts of the story have been modified to suit the needs of this blog entry.
On second thoughts, looking back at the title of the entry, was this even a date? =)
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